I'm the wife here-almost "ex" wife. What's your thoughts on this family from h---?

Husband stalks, accuses you of affairs, cussing you out in public, even though you've spent thousands on him, his kids and his parents, he tells you what a cheap liar/a-- you are. Refuses to say he loves you because he doesn't want to upset his 14 yo daughter (my step daughter) definitely cannot hold hands with wife for same reason. brother in law calls you every name in the book. never spoke to him in wife's life. step son inappropriate to wife sexually. step daughter calls you every name in the book (14 yo). husband never says anything to kids. husbands injured for 6 months/unable to work lawn service. wife works her full time job and also keeps husbands commerical business going on weekends. his children refuse to help saying they won't do anything to help their dad. father in law cusses wife(daughter in law) out after she paid for denture/dental work due to an emergency he was in. he voided warranty due to his own negligence-is this a family from h--- or what?

I'm the wife here-almost "ex" wife. What's your thoughts on this family from h---?
he sounds as if he was using u, for your money and what he could get out of you. u did the right thing, and hopefully the rest of your life will be a happy one once your finished with him and his family.
Reply:Wow-- some women really don't care who they marry, do they? The family may be from hell, but you're the one who picked him.
Reply:Souns like one. Sorry you have put up with that.


ayfr
Reply:Sounds like my ex wifes family. A bunch of drug addicts and people who mothers were hookers when they were growing up.





Be glad to be done with them no matter the cost. I lost my two older kids, but I will get them back. Just a matter of time.
Reply:Oh my goodness! Take your money and your life out of there. That is torture. Do it now. Sneak out tonight! I really don't understand why you stayed this long. You need to take care of yourself emotionally and this is NOT it. Please get out!
Reply:It's all their fault and they shouldn't have put a gun to your head and made you do all those things, including getting married. Here in the United States people can't force people to get married and do those things, you should move here.
Reply:That was hellishly awful and completely amusing at the same time, sorry. I had to laugh at that bunch of degenerates. I hope you can too someday.
Reply:KILL THEM ALL...






















































































































































































With niceness. No really!





the meaner they get, the nicer you get. Make a game of it. It will drive them nuts...





...trust the rain.
Reply:If it sucks so bad, why haven't you left yet? You have a job so you have the financial resources to start over on your own. Stop whining, leave and get over it. You're stupid if things are this bad and you stay.
Reply:Yes, it is and it's about time you STOP letting everyone ride you woman! Tell your husband that it is time he talks to his children about appropriate respectful behaviour towards their step mother. Same should apply to the rest of his family. They are acting like this because your husband LETS them!


If this is the kind of life you see for yourself, do nothing and keep complainning in syberspace.


If you want better, then give your hubster an ultimatum. It's either things change or you are out of there.


Sorry Sweets but your man dissapeared because you allowed him to.








I wish you well.
Reply:run and then be thankful ; hard finding your way to the curb when you have been kicked around in the gutter; have a happy future , best revenge
Reply:This sounds like a very dysfunctional marriage. It sounds like you both need help.





If you are seeking a divorce, then why do you have contact with him? Unless you have children together there is no reason for you to have contact except through a lawyer. This is a very difficult time for the both of you so you have to have some time apart to let your emotions settle down. You are both like a cancer to each other that keeps coming back. Every time you see each other it is like opening up a can of emotions, especially at this stage of your divorce. It is like having the love of your life die, and then come back to life only to die again. Divorce is a difficult thing to accept, (as you know,) and because it can be so painful, whenever you see each other, you end up having very irrational conversations because behind your words there is pain. When you feel pain, it is hard to sometimes be rational even when you have the best intentions. Give each other some time to accept that you are getting a divorce by not having any contact. Not having any contact will allow him to accept that the death of your marriage is real. Maybe letting go is hard for him. If you want some peace in your life, then doing all you can to avoid traveling in the same circles for awhile is key.





Seeing as your husband is stalking you, have you thought about getting a restraining order?
Reply:Wow. They really stink!!!! Good thing you got out before it got any worse, if it could. Have fun now and don't get married again for a long time.
Reply:Fool you once, shame on them. Fool you twice, shame on you!


You walked out of one bad marriage and into another. It also looks as though you are talking like a victim. A lot of bad stuff going on here that doesn't sound healthy. Talk to a counselor. they will do a lot more for you than Yahoo Answers.