Boyfriend issues....help guys. What do you think?

ok...so I have a boyfriend that can't seem to give up an ex-girlfriend from four years ago. This ex girl friend was part of my boyfriend getting divorced from his ex-wife and now we're having issues. He pays for her cell bill. He carries one of the phones on the plan and the other day he had her transfer $400 into her bank account from his... for emergency dental work. She lives fives states away. He says he wants to marry me and has big plans for us. Why does this seem to be a big issue...and I am surely not an insecure girl. What is his problem?

Boyfriend issues....help guys. What do you think?
He's still messing with her to be doing all those things...That is the real issue. Dump him I know you aren't stupid enought to believe what ever he is telling you. If he is sending her money and pays for her cell he's still with her....Nope I'd dump him he's playing you both!
Reply:I don't know, but it seems that he is saying one thing (wants to marry you), but doing something else (paying for her cell phone bill and dental work). If it is only a loan between friends I can see that, but this sounds like more than just a loan. I would almost go as far as to tell him he needs to choose, atleast this way it would get solved. However if you do this prepare yourself for the chance that he might choose her.
Reply:this guy carnt let go and wonts the best of both woman but r u wonting to share he with you he should not b putting money into her account
Reply:OK, i may be a girl, but i grew up with three brothers, and two dads. you need to give him the ultimatum. some guys like having two girls, but its not fair to either of party. if he really loved you, he would give her up.
Reply:Well stand up and tell him her or me. If that doesn't work walk.
Reply:girlfriend RUN run as fast as you can . if he has no kids with her then why is he paying her . are you sure she lives states away. if he loves you then tell him to cut her off that sounds fishy. Maybe you should call the show cheaters and have him followed. No man gives any woman money without getting anything in return.
Reply:I don't know what his problem is, but his problem should be you breaking up with him.
Reply:he has big problems do you really want to marry someone hanging on so close to the past. he needs to learn to say no. not unless there is something he is hiding about this ex of his